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ADHD, for me at least, is not a superpower. I wish it was! But most of the time it feels like battling your own brain, and that is just exhausting.  Someone described it once as like having a brilliant inventor and a terrible assistant living in the same room: you have a surge of creative energy, a "lightbulb" moment that feels world-changing, but by the time you go to grab a pen, the motivation has vanished, or you’ve forgotten the middle three steps of the plan. If you have

I’ll be the first to admit it: before I started working with a particular client, my knowledge of golf was limited to "it seems like a nice way to spend an afternoon". I didn't get it. But after diving into the world of greens and chipping through the lens of Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, I have developed a massive appreciation for the sheer mental grit and precision this sport requires.  It  turns out, golf isn't just about the clubs, balls and holes. It’s about what’s happ

If you’ve spent any time in my clinic or browsing my website, you’ve likely heard me throw around terms like "The Stress Bucket" or "The Three Ps." While they might sound like a secret code at first, these terms are actually the keys to understanding how your brain works—and more importantly, how to get it working for  you instead of against you. Here is a quick guide to the most common terms we use in Solution Focused Hypnotherapy and why they matter for your well-being. 1.

The Sunday Scaries We’ve all been there. It’s 6:00 PM on a Sunday, the weekend is fading fast, and that familiar tightening in your chest starts to kick in. Your brain begins a frantic, unhelpful "scan" of the week ahead—the looming deadlines, the overflowing inbox, and that one meeting that always feels more like an interrogation than a collaboration. In our culture, we often treat work stress as an unavoidable badge of honor. We "just get on with it" until we’re running on

Parenting is hard. It is different types of hard for different people and situations, but ultimately it’s hard in some form. If you’re a parent, you’ve likely felt it. That moment where a spilled glass of milk or a lost shoe feels less like a minor mishap and more like a personal affront. Or those days where you have a "to-do" list a mile long, but you find yourself staring at a wall, unable to decide which manky sock to pick up first. For me, a tipping point was my third chi

A lot of people associate hypnotherapy with a magical fix. The word "hypnosis" carries a lot of baggage: thanks to stage shows and Hollywood movies, there’s a lingering idea that I’m going to swing a pocket watch, click my fingers....and suddenly you’ll never want a cigarette again, or your phobia of spiders will vanish, or you’ll now have the productivity of a CEO after 10 cups of coffee. It sounds pretty nice, a magic wand for the mind. But the reality of Solution Focused H